Coping With Prostate Cancer

A diagnosis of prostate cancer can leave you and your loved ones feeling uncertain, anxious and overwhelmed. There are important treatment decisions to make, emotional concerns to manage, and insurance and financial paperwork to organize, among other practical concerns.

It is helpful to keep in mind that there are many sources of information and support for people coping with prostate cancer. By learning about this diagnosis and its treatment options, communicating with your healthcare team, and surrounding yourself with a support network, you will be better able to manage your prostate cancer and experience a better quality of life.

Understanding your diagnosis and treatment plan

Prostate cancer occurs when the cells found in the prostate begin to change and grow uncontrollably, forming a tumor (also called a nodule), which can be either cancerous or benign.

There are a wide range of treatments for prostate cancer, including surgery, radiation, hormone therapy, chemotherapy and immunotherapy (vaccine therapy). People with early-stage prostate may have no symptoms and only need close monitoring by their doctors. If treatment is necessary, ask your health care team to recommend reliable publications and websites to learn more. Knowing what to expect can help you feel more in control.

Read CancerCare’s booklet titled, “Treatment Update: Metastatic Prostate Cancer” for more information on metastatic prostate cancer.

The importance of communicating with your healthcare team

Because prostate cancer is a complex condition with complex treatment options, good communication between you and your healthcare team is key. Your oncologist, nurses, and other members of your healthcare team work together to treat your prostate cancer. Since medical appointments are the main time you will interact with your team, being as prepared as possible for these visits is important. It will help ensure that you understand your diagnosis and treatment, get answers to your questions, and feel more satisfied with your overall care. Read CancerCare’s fact sheet, “‘Doctor, Can We Talk?’: Tips for Communicating With Your Healthcare Team,” to learn how you can communicate more effectively with your heathcare team.

Finding resources

While prostate cancer can present many challenges, keep in mind that you do not need to cope with this diagnosis on your own. Your friends and family are important sources of strength and support. There are also many local and national support services available to assist you. Read CancerCare’s fact sheet, “Sources of Financial Assistance,” to find more information on financial assistance organizations.

Another resource is CancerCare’s A Helping Hand ( This is a searchable, online database of financial and practical assistance available for people with cancer. This comprehensive online tool features up-to-date contact information and descriptions for hundreds of national and regional organizations offering financial help to people with cancer. You can search by diagnosis, zip code and type of assistance.

Financial Assistance. There are many organizations that provide help with medical billing, insurance coverage, and reimbursement issues. There is also financial assistance available to help people who cannot afford the cost of their medications. Good places to start your research are the websites of the Cancer Financial Assistance Coalition ( and the Partnership for Prescription Assistance (

Benefits and entitlements. Local and county government agencies can give you information on Social Security, state disability, Medicaid, income maintenance, the Low Income Heating Energy Assistance Program (LIHEAP), and food stamps. Check your local phone directory for listings.

Housing/Lodging. The Hope Lodge of the American Cancer Society, the National Association of Hospital Hospitality Houses (, and other organizations provide temporary lodging for families of a patient who needs to travel far from their home for treatment. Joe’s House is a nonprofit organization that offers an online database with lodging information near cancer treatment centers across the U.S. To learn more, visit

Getting emotional support

Adjusting to and finding ways to cope with a prostate cancer diagnosis is an important part of healing, along with treatment. There are many organizations, such as CancerCare, that provide support services to help people affected by cancer. Individual counseling is available to help you learn ways to cope with the emotions and challenges raised by your diagnosis. Support groups can connect you with other patients in a safe, supportive environment. Cancer affects the whole person and their loved ones, so it’s important to create a support network as part of managing your care.


Prostate cancer resources

American Urological Association Foundation

Malecare, Inc.

Prostate Advocates Aiding Choices in Treatments (PAACT)

Prostate Cancer Education Council

Prostate Cancer Foundation

Society of Urologic Nurses and Associates

The Prostate Net

Us TOO International Prostate Cancer Education & Support Network

ZERO – The End of Prostate Cancer

Additional Resources

American Cancer Society

Cancer Support Community


National Cancer Institute


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